Beauty and Martinis.....Fashion,Drinks and Convo

How many times have you asked yourself why you love yourself? I'm pretty sure never!!! We never second guess ourselves on what matters. Sadly, we second guess others but never look in the mirror.  In our current life we have to second guess what we will allow, let go of, enter in, and mostly disturb your peace, stability, energy, vibes.  Why? At some point we can't play the fool to our self worth as well as what we deserve. Take a night, set the mood as in wine, candles, soft music and make a list of pros and Cons about yourself, major people in your life, goals, choices,future ambitions. Give yourself 90 days of self treatments. Make time for yourself with one weekend out the month just for you. Now, this can cost you nothing or cost you a lot depending upon your pockets (lol) but you are worthy babes.  To love yourself cost nothing, but doesn't mean it's free to others. It's OK to charge for your time; this isn't montery exchange either.  Charge for your emoti

When people crossed paths, we always think of the reasoning instead of the appreciation. We look for every reason on why and how or when also maybe...We as humans never see the individual or the group of people coming in our life as a positive outlook. Sadly, the negative oversea it all. For instance, you see a beautiful sweater for the fall and winter session on sale in clearance but you overlook it due to it being a hot summer day. You can either 1 of 2 things; 1. loose out on a good deal by purchasing the sweater in the summer time or 2. Just except you came across a good looking piece of fabric.  We have to look at people and their value, their purpose like we do our drinks and fashion. Why I say this? Think about it, you will not just pick up any kind of dress without reason. You pick your drink for the moment you're in whether it is shot or a cocktail. You also pick your outfir out for the moment and not to just put on something.  Do not see never see a purpose of what happen