Beauty and Martinis.....Fashion,Drinks and Convo

How many times have you asked yourself why you love yourself? I'm pretty sure never!!! We never second guess ourselves on what matters. Sadly, we second guess others but never look in the mirror.  In our current life we have to second guess what we will allow, let go of, enter in, and mostly disturb your peace, stability, energy, vibes.  Why? At some point we can't play the fool to our self worth as well as what we deserve. Take a night, set the mood as in wine, candles, soft music and make a list of pros and Cons about yourself, major people in your life, goals, choices,future ambitions. Give yourself 90 days of self treatments. Make time for yourself with one weekend out the month just for you. Now, this can cost you nothing or cost you a lot depending upon your pockets (lol) but you are worthy babes.  To love yourself cost nothing, but doesn't mean it's free to others. It's OK to charge for your time; this isn't montery exchange either.  Charge for your emoti

When people crossed paths, we always think of the reasoning instead of the appreciation. We look for every reason on why and how or when also maybe...We as humans never see the individual or the group of people coming in our life as a positive outlook. Sadly, the negative oversea it all. For instance, you see a beautiful sweater for the fall and winter session on sale in clearance but you overlook it due to it being a hot summer day. You can either 1 of 2 things; 1. loose out on a good deal by purchasing the sweater in the summer time or 2. Just except you came across a good looking piece of fabric.  We have to look at people and their value, their purpose like we do our drinks and fashion. Why I say this? Think about it, you will not just pick up any kind of dress without reason. You pick your drink for the moment you're in whether it is shot or a cocktail. You also pick your outfir out for the moment and not to just put on something.  Do not see never see a purpose of what happen

All my life I fought physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually on where I come from and who I am. It was very hard growing up fighting in life for survival from people that say they love me but hurt me in many ways. Took me a long time to love and accept me. Im not perfect and never placed myself to be. Im flawed but beautifuly flawed. I deal with shit and tried to move on, but it has been a rocky road when you are learning self love and self worth. Im loyal to those I shouldn’t have and have taken care of a lot since I was born but finally seen the devil at 3am.  NOBODY knew what I was going thru as a child or now. Everyone has answers on everyone shit but their own. People take you for granted and then cry or have attitudes when you call them out on their shit. So i don’t need the judgment nor the lies...I got shit to do and goals to accomplish... But I will snap if keep being pushed... the mind of a maniac is hard to tame.... so back up and let me breathe please and just

The year 2020 has been a circus. We started off with life out of our control. But the question is, can you still be fashionable and comfortable in the house? Or is fashion just for the outdoors? I believe fashion can be seen and comfortable. This year isn't about being seen in person obviously; so why not let it be seen virtually in your own way. Take pictures and share on all social media avenues you can. Make videos with bright colors and enjoy a great drink to match.  Allow this time to be creative, free, open, be the most reflective you as possible. Let your creative fashion reflect a beautiful cocktail with all the personality you can.  Time to be free  Sip n Chill Beauty 💋