Beauty and Martinis.....Fashion,Drinks and Convo

I declare happiness,  I will forgive myself I will let go of my past and heal from my pain.  I will speak peace, walk in peace, heal in peace and embrace in peace I will declare harmony by claiming a clear mind in my path of freedom.  I will protect my heart so that I am able to think openly while walking in my path. I am open to receiving my destiny as I should be seen and as I see fit and not what others see for me!  I am a strong person who has faced my share of pain that I have overcome by taking everything one day at a time.  Brothers and Sisters you got this!!!  Breathe and lets do this with one foot in front of the other, you are not alone in this healing journey.  It is our time to shine Beauty 💋

The best feeling in life that you can give and receive is a smile. When someone adds to your smile that gives your smile a warm feeling. The smile you can give to yourself when you wake and stretch, even before you brush your teeth is the smile that counts. So, look at yourself and say I own my smile, I deserve my smile, I am my smile.  Nobody can take your smile, and no one can take away from your smile. If the person or people you are with make you lose your smile, then it is time to separate if not let them go.   That's all, carry on! Beauty 💋

Random Year Thoughts!!!!! Surviving this pandemic is a day struggle. Seeing a new day especially a new year is a blessing. Embrace this new freedom to survive the battle of you vs yourself. Being behind doors or on a small lockdown can bring mental hardships, emotional standings as well as a lot of doubts, fears and questions.  I have heard plenty of people say "Covid-19 will either bring families together or finally see the truth on people and separate what is not meant to be."  One thing for sure, a lot of drinking and “chilling” or having “kickbacks” has starting happening in the comfort of our own home. With this we have to be careful in spreading the virus as well as contracting the virus. However, embrace the measures of gaining self peace and perseverance.  We can't continue to keep a negative approach to what is going on. We can only change what we can control. And that my friend is all that matters. Beauty 💋

We all have this list of what we want in a mate, our circle, our job, extra curriculum and kids; in which the list can go on, but what does the list mean?  Does the list give off demands or standards? Does it insure me that I will get what I want or deserve? Or does this make me settle based off what society think we should want or deserve from people, places or objects? Look at me? What do you see? What do you not want to see? How do you see you? What do you not want to see about yourself?  Me vs You is what I ask myself everyday? I look and the mirror and see me based off what you see. I closed my eyes to see you because I can't stand to look at me. This is a battle we all face which can lead to me vs you and me vs me. They both explain the battle of self doubt, self love, self care, self improvement and self worth.  Allow yourself to challenge the inner you and perfect yourself in the image you see with your eyes closed.  Build you in your form not in society's fo...

The year is about to end, however, can you say you lived this year as if were your last. I'm sure some are still suffering from the pandemic. But as I have seen some act like a pandemic is not going on.  When Dec 31 come and we prepare with glamor and pictures and alcohol; lots of alcohol. When you wake up Jan 1, 2022 will you be happy how the year ended?  Battling Covid and slow income, my wish for everyone is to smile at your hard time, smile at your ok times and to smile at your best time. But to always smile. No matter your circumstances smile and make yourself look like a mlion bucks. Do not low the world to "look as you feel" and to feel like you can't handle your storm.  These best thing since Covid-19 has begun is learning to love you and live on your terms. 2021 may not have started or ended how you wanted, but if your reading this blog.. bitch you are on your way! Welcome to 2022!  Beauty 💋

How many times have you asked yourself why you love yourself? I'm pretty sure never!!! We never second guess ourselves on what matters. Sadly, we second guess others but never look in the mirror.  In our current life we have to second guess what we will allow, let go of, enter in, and mostly disturb your peace, stability, energy, vibes.  Why? At some point we can't play the fool to our self worth as well as what we deserve. Take a night, set the mood as in wine, candles, soft music and make a list of pros and Cons about yourself, major people in your life, goals, choices,future ambitions. Give yourself 90 days of self treatments. Make time for yourself with one weekend out the month just for you. Now, this can cost you nothing or cost you a lot depending upon your pockets (lol) but you are worthy babes.  To love yourself cost nothing, but doesn't mean it's free to others. It's OK to charge for your time; this isn't montery exchange either.  Charge for your emoti...

When people crossed paths, we always think of the reasoning instead of the appreciation. We look for every reason on why and how or when also maybe...We as humans never see the individual or the group of people coming in our life as a positive outlook. Sadly, the negative oversea it all. For instance, you see a beautiful sweater for the fall and winter session on sale in clearance but you overlook it due to it being a hot summer day. You can either 1 of 2 things; 1. loose out on a good deal by purchasing the sweater in the summer time or 2. Just except you came across a good looking piece of fabric.  We have to look at people and their value, their purpose like we do our drinks and fashion. Why I say this? Think about it, you will not just pick up any kind of dress without reason. You pick your drink for the moment you're in whether it is shot or a cocktail. You also pick your outfir out for the moment and not to just put on something.  Do not see never see a purpose of what h...