Me vs You

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We all have this list of what we want in a mate, our circle, our job, extra curriculum and kids; in which the list can go on, but what does the list mean? 

Does the list give off demands or standards? Does it insure me that I will get what I want or deserve? Or does this make me settle based off what society think we should want or deserve from people, places or objects?

Look at me? What do you see? What do you not want to see? How do you see you? What do you not want to see about yourself? 

Me vs You is what I ask myself everyday? I look and the mirror and see me based off what you see. I closed my eyes to see you because I can't stand to look at me. This is a battle we all face which can lead to me vs you and me vs me. They both explain the battle of self doubt, self love, self care, self improvement and self worth. 

Allow yourself to challenge the inner you and perfect yourself in the image you see with your eyes closed. 

Build you in your form not in society's forms. Enjoy you with the good, the bad, the ugly as well as the in-between. The steps of self love or self recovery isn't a fun ride and will take take, work and most of all;  patience. But regardless of the why....just do it for you!

Beautyđź’‹

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