How Many Ways

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How many times have you asked yourself why you love yourself? I'm pretty sure never!!! We never second guess ourselves on what matters. Sadly, we second guess others but never look in the mirror. 

In our current life we have to second guess what we will allow, let go of, enter in, and mostly disturb your peace, stability, energy, vibes. 

Why? At some point we can't play the fool to our self worth as well as what we deserve. Take a night, set the mood as in wine, candles, soft music and make a list of pros and Cons about yourself, major people in your life, goals, choices,future ambitions.

Give yourself 90 days of self treatments. Make time for yourself with one weekend out the month just for you. Now, this can cost you nothing or cost you a lot depending upon your pockets (lol) but you are worthy babes. 
To love yourself cost nothing, but doesn't mean it's free to others. It's OK to charge for your time; this isn't montery exchange either.  Charge for your emotional and time balance, when it's not equal say thank you, cash out and move on and love yourself double. 

Don't doubt yourself or question why? Take life as a lesson that you are suppose to learn from.

Unwind, breathe, let go and live. There are many ways to love you, think it's time to figure it out. 

Beauty 💋 

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