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Protection and Fear

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Domestic Fear Today's society has normalized derogatory language and harmful behavior as if it were acceptable communication. Speaking aggressively to someone or putting your hands on them is not love, nor is it understanding. This kind of behavior can create fear, numbness, embarrassment, and self-doubt, causing long-term emotional damage. It can destroy trust and, in some cases, lead people to turn to drugs, alcohol, or even consider suicide. These behaviors often leave lasting emotional wounds that can grow into resentment and anger. Domestic violence is not always taken seriously for many reasons. Some victims remain in abusive relationships even after a report is made, while others never report the abuse at all. Fear, having no safe way to escape, believing no one will believe the victim, embarrassment, financial dependence, or concerns about children can all prevent someone from seeking help. If you have witnessed domestic violence or have been a victim yourself, please find ...
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Creating love

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 Today the best thing you can do for yourself is nip and tuck to be "perfect".  Let's be real, we all thought about the perfect appearance we want. That goes from the look on the face or the look of the body if not a combination.  We are our own critics and in the worst way possible. I have fallen victim to looking at myself and wanting to make changes to look prettier and feel sexier. Self-love isn't an easy task to complete, keep going or better yet start.  I recently underwent Liposuction 360. This procedure is removal of fat from the midsection. This consist of the waist, upper and lower back, under arm (bra area for women) and the fupa area. I also added upper arm liposuction. Hitting a certain age, women see the imperfection in ourselves and try to fix it all to look how did in the past.  Being forty, I see all my imperfections and want to fix everything. However, i am not the surgery type lol. I went through my procedure, and I am incredibly happy with wh...
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Hulu: Black Cake

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Imagine going through life out of place and in hiding.... then finally , you find out your last days are approaching and you want to come clean.. so you finally tell your story Hulu has a series called Black Cake that is so good beauties. This story focus on a woman who was born  Coventina “Covey” Lyncook, an Afro-Chinese Caribbean girl escapes the tragedies she endured in the United Kingdom by using her absent mother’s maiden name, Brown.  As she continues to run from her past, she experiences even more hardships and leaves her no choice but to adopt another name, Eleanor Douglas, which she uses until she changes her surname when she marries.   Eleanor leaves behind 3 children, 2 who grew up together and one that was left for adoption due to an unfortunate circumstance. Eleanor left recording behind detailing every aspect of her life and to make a mend of her past.  The Black Cake was left in the freezer by Eleanor was to bring them [her children] together as a fami...
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This is Your Final SetBack

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Let us dwell on how 2023 (well honestly since 2020) has been one of the hardest years to regroup and adjust on life. Everything we all have witnessed on television or the blogs have made us stronger, opinionated and stick together in some form. However, I will say 2023 gave us  the gift of reality to ourselves in full form (whether we admit that or not) as well as the chance to see, hurt and heal. I believe 2023 made us stronger as a person in overcoming something that has weighed us down. So, with that being said, 2024 we are ready to receive and live differently. We are open to the endless opportunities of prosperity, abundant grace, great relationships, drinks and fashion.  I would sum this up in the words of Destiny Child "We are Survivors,...We not go Stop.. We go Grind harder."  Living life to the fullest, allowing the past to be learning blocks, appreciation of what is meant to be without always being a negative reason.  Everything is positive. Love is in the ...
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Heauxphase (Urbanflix)

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 Heauxphase is a series that is on the UrbanFlix.  This series has America on a choke hold right now. The show gives off freedom, displacement, struggle, selfish gain, toxic masculinity, feminism but also toxic feminism, fear, mental instability, effective parenting, unbroken chains, emotional barriers, and emotional controlling to name a few.  Heauxphase speaks on three young women who are navigating through life on their terms of sexual dominance, sexual control but with some hard consequences that no one think of until it happens.   Let's speak on the characters:  Melanie: came from a broken family (line of Hoes as her grandmother day). Young, vocal liberated outspoken without a sense of respect to give but demands respect. She seduces her stepdad, lies about her age, and then becomes pregnant. After her stepdad finds out the truth, he commits suicide and leaves misinformed Melanie with a son to raise and no help from her family or his. But how her mom a...
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Daily Love

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I grabbed my tumbler filled with my favorite wine! I put on my loose my most sexiest dress. I put my lashes on and my contacts.  Grab my sunglasses and walk to my car. The heat is aggressive but it's a slight turn on due to showing authority and showing strength. As I turn on my car, I prepare my radio for some 90s  R n B. My YouTube account, call my girls and say "Bitches, I am on my way" on our FaceTime call.  I sing to the top of my lungs and at the red light I roll my window down and  turn to my left and turn to my right and wave at the haters as they look at me as if I'm crazy! Blast my music and as I hit the freeway, my moment of freedom was knowing that small amount of self-love was everything and I actually did it! Regardless of what is going on around you, smiles, block out the negative and ride the strip, but don't drink and drive.  Enjoy life and do what makes you happy.  Love Beauty 💋
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Will you think of You?

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Ladies and Gentlemen  The time has come for us to step out like no other. Go into your closet, pick out your favorite outfit and spray your cologne or perfume. Ladies grab the glossiest lip gloss and shades, hop in your car (seat belt, safety first), and play that album that make you feel sexy and liberated and ride. Fellas crack those windows and position yourself right in the driver seat and coast.  Go to a day party, scope the room and vibe. Allow the scene to speak to you and move you. The starter drink selection will give off the type of person you are presenting.  1. Shots: fun, energetic and like to party  2. Fruity cocktails: flirty, will be in the scene a while and a people person. 3. Mixed Single drink: smooth, want to be seen and acknowledge 4. Hard Cocktails: aggressive, coping or hiding.  Whatever your drink may be, live life to the fullest and responsibly. Enjoy day by day and vibe!
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