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Are You Ready? We are ending 2022 (which seems so quick) and preparing for 2023. Allow this current year 2022 to be just that. We have endured our share of pain, smiles, unexplained reasonings, goals, start over and day to day life.  Social Media has completely taken over by helping to solved crimes, spread the gospel, analyze gossip on truth or fiction, shown fashion, drinks menu, great food ideas, v-logs, and among many other things, as well place us in your business.  As we end 2022, and our spiritual beings allow us to go to 2023, raise your glass to your smile, your love, your health, your passions and whatever may desire you to thrive. Embrace the troubled times and enhance the good times.  Let's agree to leave 2022 where it is, where it was and open yourself to the endless opportunity 2023 has in store.  Here are a few ideas that may help with enjoying 2023  1. Setting a Goal and put it into action  2. Learning a new hobby  3. Self-dates (spa day, shopping, dinner, lunch) 4.

Sometimes life teaches us some lessons, we can either keep going to see the bigger picture or just fold.  We all experience life in some sort of way and tell stories, learn lessons, then pass on the experience so that our own children do not have to mimic our mistakes.  We all learn the difference between right and wrong, good, and bad and sometimes we don't follow those lessons.  For example, the most recent events have been the death of Shanquella Robinson. The protection was lost, and the love was gone.  This story has happened in so many ways with so many people. You think you have friends, but it turned out they were enemies. We all think we have some sort of love, and it was a lie.  As we get to know people, we should take our time, read their actions as well as their words, speak the truth and listen to our gut. It is ok to take your time on people and who enters your life. Life is too short to be shorthanded on life.  Rest in Love, Life and Peace Shanquella. Your light will

This is for anyone who lost themselves..I understand your pain.. You took my life when you left me to second guess myself. I continuously cried to ease the pain that you caused. I thought about which drugs to take and which ways to go just to ease the pain you selfishly did to me. You made me feel love was finally mine and then took it back just to see me drop.   You killed me.  You used my pain to build you up and tear me down like I was being taught a lesson. The options were to have no more fucks to give and after all this pain I will never find love or trust anyone again.  You killed me  I waited every day for you to come home and have your hugs, kisses and affection. To be held by you and for you to tell me you love me to my face.  But you killed me.  You took my smile and gave me tears. You took my soul leaving me lifeless as you lived your life. Over and over again today you killed me. But I stood my ground and woke up from the nightmare of letting myself go and free of the pain

I declare happiness,  I will forgive myself I will let go of my past and heal from my pain.  I will speak peace, walk in peace, heal in peace and embrace in peace I will declare harmony by claiming a clear mind in my path of freedom.  I will protect my heart so that I am able to think openly while walking in my path. I am open to receiving my destiny as I should be seen and as I see fit and not what others see for me!  I am a strong person who has faced my share of pain that I have overcome by taking everything one day at a time.  Brothers and Sisters you got this!!!  Breathe and lets do this with one foot in front of the other, you are not alone in this healing journey.  It is our time to shine Beauty 💋

The best feeling in life that you can give and receive is a smile. When someone adds to your smile that gives your smile a warm feeling. The smile you can give to yourself when you wake and stretch, even before you brush your teeth is the smile that counts. So, look at yourself and say I own my smile, I deserve my smile, I am my smile.  Nobody can take your smile, and no one can take away from your smile. If the person or people you are with make you lose your smile, then it is time to separate if not let them go.   That's all, carry on! Beauty 💋

Random Year Thoughts!!!!! Surviving this pandemic is a day struggle. Seeing a new day especially a new year is a blessing. Embrace this new freedom to survive the battle of you vs yourself. Being behind doors or on a small lockdown can bring mental hardships, emotional standings as well as a lot of doubts, fears and questions.  I have heard plenty of people say "Covid-19 will either bring families together or finally see the truth on people and separate what is not meant to be."  One thing for sure, a lot of drinking and “chilling” or having “kickbacks” has starting happening in the comfort of our own home. With this we have to be careful in spreading the virus as well as contracting the virus. However, embrace the measures of gaining self peace and perseverance.  We can't continue to keep a negative approach to what is going on. We can only change what we can control. And that my friend is all that matters. Beauty 💋

We all have this list of what we want in a mate, our circle, our job, extra curriculum and kids; in which the list can go on, but what does the list mean?  Does the list give off demands or standards? Does it insure me that I will get what I want or deserve? Or does this make me settle based off what society think we should want or deserve from people, places or objects? Look at me? What do you see? What do you not want to see? How do you see you? What do you not want to see about yourself?  Me vs You is what I ask myself everyday? I look and the mirror and see me based off what you see. I closed my eyes to see you because I can't stand to look at me. This is a battle we all face which can lead to me vs you and me vs me. They both explain the battle of self doubt, self love, self care, self improvement and self worth.  Allow yourself to challenge the inner you and perfect yourself in the image you see with your eyes closed.  Build you in your form not in society's forms. Enjoy

The year is about to end, however, can you say you lived this year as if were your last. I'm sure some are still suffering from the pandemic. But as I have seen some act like a pandemic is not going on.  When Dec 31 come and we prepare with glamor and pictures and alcohol; lots of alcohol. When you wake up Jan 1, 2022 will you be happy how the year ended?  Battling Covid and slow income, my wish for everyone is to smile at your hard time, smile at your ok times and to smile at your best time. But to always smile. No matter your circumstances smile and make yourself look like a mlion bucks. Do not low the world to "look as you feel" and to feel like you can't handle your storm.  These best thing since Covid-19 has begun is learning to love you and live on your terms. 2021 may not have started or ended how you wanted, but if your reading this blog.. bitch you are on your way! Welcome to 2022!  Beauty 💋