Beauty and Martinis.....Fashion,Drinks and Convo

Imagine going through life out of place and in hiding.... then finally , you find out your last days are approaching and you want to come clean.. so you finally tell your story Hulu has a series called Black Cake that is so good beauties. This story focus on a woman who was born  Coventina “Covey” Lyncook, an Afro-Chinese Caribbean girl escapes the tragedies she endured in the United Kingdom by using her absent mother’s maiden name, Brown.  As she continues to run from her past, she experiences even more hardships and leaves her no choice but to adopt another name, Eleanor Douglas, which she uses until she changes her surname when she marries.   Eleanor leaves behind 3 children, 2 who grew up together and one that was left for adoption due to an unfortunate circumstance. Eleanor left recording behind detailing every aspect of her life and to make a mend of her past.  The Black Cake was left in the freezer by Eleanor was to bring them [her children] together as a family and to make sens

Let us dwell on how 2023 (well honestly since 2020) has been one of the hardest years to regroup and adjust on life. Everything we all have witnessed on television or the blogs have made us stronger, opinionated and stick together in some form. However, I will say 2023 gave us  the gift of reality to ourselves in full form (whether we admit that or not) as well as the chance to see, hurt and heal. I believe 2023 made us stronger as a person in overcoming something that has weighed us down. So, with that being said, 2024 we are ready to receive and live differently. We are open to the endless opportunities of prosperity, abundant grace, great relationships, drinks and fashion.  I would sum this up in the words of Destiny Child "We are Survivors,...We not go Stop.. We go Grind harder."  Living life to the fullest, allowing the past to be learning blocks, appreciation of what is meant to be without always being a negative reason.  Everything is positive. Love is in the air and h

 Heauxphase is a series that is on the UrbanFlix.  This series has America on a choke hold right now. The show gives off freedom, displacement, struggle, selfish gain, toxic masculinity, feminism but also toxic feminism, fear, mental instability, effective parenting, unbroken chains, emotional barriers, and emotional controlling to name a few.  Heauxphase speaks on three young women who are navigating through life on their terms of sexual dominance, sexual control but with some hard consequences that no one think of until it happens.   Let's speak on the characters:  Melanie: came from a broken family (line of Hoes as her grandmother day). Young, vocal liberated outspoken without a sense of respect to give but demands respect. She seduces her stepdad, lies about her age, and then becomes pregnant. After her stepdad finds out the truth, he commits suicide and leaves misinformed Melanie with a son to raise and no help from her family or his. But how her mom and grandmother are; the a

I grabbed my tumbler filled with my favorite wine! I put on my loose my most sexiest dress. I put my lashes on and my contacts.  Grab my sunglasses and walk to my car. The heat is aggressive but it's a slight turn on due to showing authority and showing strength. As I turn on my car, I prepare my radio for some 90s  R n B. My YouTube account, call my girls and say "Bitches, I am on my way" on our FaceTime call.  I sing to the top of my lungs and at the red light I roll my window down and  turn to my left and turn to my right and wave at the haters as they look at me as if I'm crazy! Blast my music and as I hit the freeway, my moment of freedom was knowing that small amount of self-love was everything and I actually did it! Regardless of what is going on around you, smiles, block out the negative and ride the strip, but don't drink and drive.  Enjoy life and do what makes you happy.  Love Beauty 💋

Ladies and Gentlemen  The time has come for us to step out like no other. Go into your closet, pick out your favorite outfit and spray your cologne or perfume. Ladies grab the glossiest lip gloss and shades, hop in your car (seat belt, safety first), and play that album that make you feel sexy and liberated and ride. Fellas crack those windows and position yourself right in the driver seat and coast.  Go to a day party, scope the room and vibe. Allow the scene to speak to you and move you. The starter drink selection will give off the type of person you are presenting.  1. Shots: fun, energetic and like to party  2. Fruity cocktails: flirty, will be in the scene a while and a people person. 3. Mixed Single drink: smooth, want to be seen and acknowledge 4. Hard Cocktails: aggressive, coping or hiding.  Whatever your drink may be, live life to the fullest and responsibly. Enjoy day by day and vibe!

 Happy New Year Bitches!!!!! It's 2023, we all made our resolutions and rants, but how much are we going to commit too? This is the month of February and honestly, have we stuck to our word or naw? I have made it clear in my mind that I am not going to say what I will or will not do, but more if just doing it. It is so easy to fall off the to-do list. Some will say you cannot commit to anything; some say you put more on your plate than you can handle.  I say, live this year with no regrets. Allow yourself to live free, be free, think free, react freely, release freely, feel freely and most of all DO IT ON YOUR TERMS. By dictionary.com, FREE is /fre/ not or no longer confined or imprisoned. This definition can be understood by not being held back or held down. This goes for mental, emotions, toxic relationships, your past, or just you vs. you.  We will be FREE in 2023, no matter what it takes. If you do not stand for something, then the outcome will always be nothing.  Love,  Beauty